Your relationship blueprint is based on many things. In this episode, relationship coach, Jamie Hirsch, reveals how our blueprint is created.
Jamie Hirsch helps people identify their relationship blueprint. Her unique vantage on life and relationships, along with years of study and mentoring with some of the best in the business, make for a distinct delivery that has helped hundreds of people transform their lives by sourcing their own power.
In this episode of Last First Date Radio:
- Why Jamie is so passionate about relationships
- What role self-esteem plays in who we attract
- How to know if someone is right for you
- How to discover your relationship blueprint
- How to go on your last first date
Understanding Your Relationship Blueprint
Why are you so passionate about relationships?
From a very young age,I wanted to figure out what makes relationships great. I grew up in a middle-class family, and realized there were certain things with my parents I did not agree with. So, I did continuous research, which allowed me to publish three books.
What role does self-esteem play in who we attract into our lives?
Self esteem is very vital. If we’re in a relationship, we want to know that person is bringing out the best in us and we in them. When your self-esteem is high, you attract people in your life based on your real value, and you don’t settle.
What is the relationship blueprint, and how can we improve it to improve who we attract into our lives?
The relationship blueprint begins with how we were raised. My parents, for example, would be my first role model into the relationships I develop as an adult. I started studying Attachment Theory to understand how our caretakers influence our adult relationships. It’s important to first understand the caregivers in our lives. Then, we look at our beliefs about relationships. We can rewire our attachment style. It’s also good to know our love language.
How can you tell if someone is right for you?
What I want and what I need matches my partner. Our love languages match. You feel love and harmony when it’s the right match. We add to each other’s lives.
What are your final words of advice for anyone who wants to go on their last first date?
Relationships are a journey. Some people are in our lives for a reason some for a season and some for a lifetime I like to try and figure out the reason for the pain and suffering. There are lots of people in the world, and we’re going to die alone just like we were born individually and it’s all okay.
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